Thursday, August 5, 2010

I hate violence.

I HATE Violence. Everyday, people beat up the homeless for fun, rape little girls to fulfill their fantasies and shoot people for the petty cash in their wallets. This is reality. Yet we watch it for entertainment? How can we allow this into our homes?

People say to me "Oh, it's not real, it just T.V., everybody knows it's not real."

Come on
, please. Who do you think you're kidding?

We are so ridiculous. Why do we deceive ourselves? Do we honestly believe we are above the influence of the media we feed ourselves?

Look, I'll put it to you straight friends. We use media to entertain ourselves, we watch movies (or read books, or listen to music etc.) for entertainment, correct? Therefore if there's violence in your media, you are being entertained by it.

"Oh, no I just ignore it, I watch the movies because I like the plot (or the special effects or the actors etc.)."

Lame excuse, try again.

Even if that were true, then by default, not only are you desensitizing yourself to violence, you are teaching yourself to ignore violence. You often hear complaints that American ignore the plight of those less fortunate (the homeless, the people of Darfur, children in the sex slave industry etc.). We ask "How can we ignore these people who desperately need our help?"

How?

Because we practice it on a daily basis.

Every year, movies get more and more violent. Things that would have been unacceptable, five ten years ago, are accepted without question now. That means as a society we are needing more and more violence to satisfy our appetites. Can't you see what an addiction it has become?

"But I really like all the cool forensic science stuff on T.V., it can't be all that bad."

We all know T.V. crime scene dramas only show the "cool" part of the crime. But, what about the wretchedness that is the reality for actual crime victims?

How much agony do parents of kidnapped children go through as they wait day after day, sitting by the phone, clinging to hope that somehow their baby is still alive and they will get to hold them again? What about the victims of rape? Where is their consolidation? Does catching the rapist heal them? How often does that actually happen? Every drama ends so neatly, but is that a reality for most rape victims? How many nights do they lay awake, afraid to sleep because of the nightmares that won't go away?

Friends, I am pleading with you. Think about what you are doing. There is so much untold suffering in this world, the least we can do is not exploit it for entertainment.

Our lives here in America our so...sanitary. Most of us will never have to experience what is the daily reality for so many people. We will never go hungry, never have to worry about soldiers invading our home. We are one of the wealthiest, most privileged nations to ever exist in human history.
Or maybe you are the victim of violence. For that, whatever your circumstances, I am deeply sorry.

"Okay, so I won't consume media that has violence in it any more, will that satisfy you?"

It is not enough to simply avoid doing bad things, we must begin to replace our wrongdoing with righteousness.

"Therefore, putting away lying, Let each one of you speak truth with his neighbor,” for we are members of one another. “Be angry, and do not sin”: do not let the sun go down on your wrath, nor give place to the devil. Let him who stole steal no longer, but rather let him labor, working with his hands what is good, that he may have something to give him who has need. 29 Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you." -Ephesians 4:25-32


As Americans, there is so much we can do without ever even leaving the comfort of our homes. We don't have to be the leader of a huge charity to make an impact, we don't have to sell everything we own and move to Africa to work with orphans (though those are noble things). We grossly underestimate the impact of living simply.

It's nice when we can do big things to help people, huge fund-raising projects, awareness campaigns, things that everybody notices. But, how much more of challenge is it to do the little things that that nobody notices? Denying yourself daily is the key.

This is what I have realized. I do not know what God has planned for my life. What I will do after I graduate, I haven't the faintest idea. But, this I do know. TODAY, I will do my best to be faithful in the little things. It starts with today, God has called me to be faithful today. Not tomorrow, not when I'm old and I'm done having fun. God calls for obedience today.

Luke 16:10
"He who is faithful in what is least is faithful also in much; and he who is unjust in what is least is unjust also in much. Therefore if you have not been faithful in the unrighteous mammon, who will commit to your trust the true riches? And if you have not been faithful in what is another man’s, who will give you what is your own? “No servant can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or else he will be loyal to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon.”
And as paraphrased by The Message:
10-13Jesus went on to make these comments:

If you're honest in small things,
you'll be honest in big things;
If you're a crook in small things,
you'll be a crook in big things.
If you're not honest in small jobs,
who will put you in charge of the store?
No worker can serve two bosses:
He'll either hate the first and love the second
Or adore the first and despise the second.
You can't serve both God and the Bank.

There seems to be a disconnect in our thinking. We see evil on a national scale and don't understand that its just a magnification of the evil that we do.

Environmental issues? Magnification of the fact that sometimes I don't take the extra step to recycle.
Human rights issues? Magnification of my own selfishness.
Animal rights issues? Magnification of the fact that sometimes I get to busy to pay attention to my dog.

I don't want to live my life ignoring the poor and the destitute.
Let us rise up as a generation and plead the cause of the broken, the poor and the destitute to the ends of the earth.

Ezekiel 16:49-50 (NKJV)
"Look, this was the iniquity of your sister Sodom: She and her daughter had pride, fullness of food, and abundance of idleness; neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy. 50 And they were haughty and committed abomination before Me; therefore I took them away as I saw fit."
and as paraphrased by The Message:
"The sin of your sister Sodom was this: She lived with her daughters in the lap of luxury—proud, gluttonous, and lazy. They ignored the oppressed and the poor. They put on airs and lived obscene lives. And you know what happened: I did away with them."

4 comments:

  1. Sarah Jo! You make some really good points here. Thanks for sharing:)

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  2. Just a thought.. In the old testament, there are multiple accounts of violence (as well as some in the NT). Are we to ignore these passages as well? How far are you willing to take these challenges?
    God was not immune to violence or using his people to conquer nations.
    Of course, I will not use that reason as an excuse to watch whatever I please--I often find violence on TV repulsive--but is the answer to shield ourselves from any hint of violence? Or to have a Biblical perspective (or worldview) as our guide?

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  3. I hear ya in general; I think violence in movies and TV, however, can serve a purpose in showing Americans how little we know about what it's like to live around the world where it isn't safe, or even in our backyards, for that matter. It isn't to glorify but to remind. The Passion of the Christ is another movie that is horribly violent but serves the purpose of reminding us just how much Christ suffered in order to do God's will and reconcile us to Him. Just a few ideas.

    Plus I totally watch garbage like 300 and I always try to avoid conviction about it :P

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  4. Caitlin, you make a valid point. I guess I failed to distinguish between media that depicts violence for informational and educational purposes vs. media that uses violence to entertain. Though the problem is where is the line? As with most things that are not outlined in black in white in the bible, we should rely on The Word of God and the Holy Spirit to guide in our everyday decisions. I would never intend to try to force my personal convictions on others because while I can support my convictions biblically, they are still my convictions. I guess my goal with this post was to get people to think about what we do. I realize it's so easy to go along with the world, and never give a second thought to the Godliness of our everyday actions, which can have unforeseen consequences. As you may have figured out (:P) I'm a passionate person, and when I have convictions, they're pretty strong and I expect everyone to feel just as strongly about a topic as I do (working on not doing that lol). Thanks for reading everybody, I really enjoyed your feedback (Lara, Rachel) I love discussing what I think with other Christian women, it helps refine who I am. I can't wait to catch up with all of you when school starts again.

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